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WELCOME TO our unfiltered blog, the written playbook for listeners who want the strategy and the extra tea we couldn’t cram into the episode.
It’s where we break things down step-by-step, spill the context, and give you the “let me process this in writing” version of every chaotic topic we cover.
Ep. 15: Too Hot to Spiral
The world feels louder than ever. War headlines, economic chaos, rabbit holes, doom scrolling at 2am… it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But what if spiraling isn’t awareness… it’s avoidance? In this episode, we talk about staying sane when everything feels insane, why personal excellence might be the ultimate rebellion, and how to build something meaningful without collapsing under the noise.
Ep. 14: 90 Day Probation
This episode breaks down what actually happens when you commit to something every week… the ego hits, the identity spiral, the perfectionism trap, the pivots, and the realization that consistency is a competitive advantage. It’s about putting the work out before you feel ready, refining in public, and understanding that most people don’t fail, they just stop.
Ep. 13: F*ck the Timeline
If you feel “behind,” it’s not because you are, it’s because you’re measuring your life against a timeline that was never designed for you. In this episode, we unpack why moving home isn’t failure, why comparison is a confidence killer, and how committing to your values (not society’s milestones) is the fastest way to build momentum. This is your permission slip to stop chasing deadlines and start building a life that actually fits.
Ep. 12: It’s Giving Identity Crisis
In the age of likes, views, and constant visibility, authenticity gets blurry. This episode explores how social media shapes identity, fuels performance, and quietly disconnects us from who we actually are.
Ep. 11: Literally Just Book It
You’re allowed to care about your career and want to see the world. Anyone who tells you otherwise is projecting their own limits.
Ep. 10: Threatened Much?
Being labeled “intimidating” is rarely about behavior and almost always about power. This piece breaks down why confident women get misread at work, when intimidation actually works in your favor, and how to use it strategically instead of shrinking yourself.
Ep. 9: Madison Turns 28 (again)
Confidence doesn’t come from hype, compliments, or “positive vibes.” It comes from showing up as yourself, removing the safety net, and realizing you survive anyway. Here’s how to stop performing for approval and start moving like you actually trust yourself.
Ep. 8: Breaking Up with Sorry 💔
In Breaking Up with Sorry, we unpack why women over-apologize, how it quietly makes you easier to override, and we kick off the 4-week No-Sorry Challenge to fix it.
Ep. 7: All Gas, No Breaks
Wanting to work through the holidays doesn’t mean you’re broken, burnt out, or avoiding your life. Sometimes it just means you love what you’re building and you’re not willing to hit pause because the calendar says you should.
Ep. 6: Your Tone is a Jumpscare
Your tone is doing way more damage (or heavy lifting) than your words ever will. This episode breaks down baby voice, bitch voice, bro voice, and why sounding neutral, controlled, and intentional is actually the real power move at work.
Ep. 5: God was Like… SMITE!
Most women don’t build confidence from hype or praise they earn it through experience, boundaries, and finally not caring who’s uncomfortable. This episode breaks down why “being nice” costs women more than anything else at work, and how real power comes from trust, clarity, and knowing when to walk away.
Ep. 4: Hoe-liday tips!
Work holiday parties aren’t “just for fun.” They’re professional events with alcohol, poor judgment, and consequences. This episode breaks down how to survive December with your job, dignity, and reputation intact.
Ep. 3: Welcome to Barbie Land, Motherf*ckers
This episode breaks down the subtle and not-so-subtle harassment women face at work, how to trust your instincts, set boundaries, document behavior, and lean on other women for support.
Ep. 2: That’s NOT a Compliment
If you think you have to laugh it off, smile, or flirt to survive, you don’t.
We walk you through controlling the room with one sentence: “What do you mean by that?”
Ep. 1: Don’t F*ck Your Boss!
If you think your boss “might be the one,” we promise he’s not.
We unpack the disasters, the power plays, and give you a step-by-step guide to escaping without quitting your job.