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WELCOME TO our unfiltered blog, the written playbook for listeners who want the strategy and the extra tea we couldn’t cram into the episode.
It’s where we break things down step-by-step, spill the context, and give you the “let me process this in writing” version of every chaotic topic we cover.
Ep. 32: Culty Work Environment vs. Company Culture: What's the Difference
One of us worked at a company that hit almost every box on the cult checklist: a personality test used against her, a mandatory 24 hour rule for every conversation, and a literal crying room. Here's how to tell if your job is toxic, or if it's something worse.
Ep. 31: Why Can't Anyone Commit Anymore? Has Social Media Ruined Dating?
You go on a few good dates. You meet the family. You talk about marriage and kids. And then one day, gone. No conversation, no closure, nothing. If that's happened to you, it's not just you, it's everyone. We break down why no one can commit anymore, how social media turned people into content, the panic and dip every woman recognizes, why situationships hurt worse than real breakups, and why they always come back just to feed their ego.
Ep. 30: The Rebuild Era: Divorce, Loss, and Coming Back Richer
Losing the relationship, the income, and the version of yourself you thought you'd be forever, all at once. Then having to stand up anyway. We break down what it actually takes to rebuild after divorce and loss: the money moves nobody teaches you, why "cut out the lattes" and "hustle harder" can do more harm than good, and how to heal and rebuild your finances at the same time.
Ep. 29: Is Job Hopping Bad For Your Career, Or Is Loyalty The Real Mistake?
Is it smarter to spend your twenties climbing one ladder or trying ten different doors before choosing one? In this week's debate, we tackle the career hoe versus the loyalist. One of us spent over a decade building in a single industry. The other bounced between careers, schools, countries, and opportunities before finding her lane. Neither path is wrong but both come with trade-offs that could shape the rest of your life.
Ep. 28: The Devil Wears Prada (1 & 2): A Hoe to CEO Analysis
Twenty years later and we are still not over it. We saw The Devil Wears Prada 2 in theatres and broke down every character through a Hoe to CEO lens. Miranda the unhateable villain, Andy the pick me, Emily and that plot twist, and Nigel's twenty years of loyalty. Here is our take.
Ep. 27: You Already Know. You Just Don't Want To.
You're not confused. You're not still figuring it out. You already know what you need to do, you're just scared to do it. We're talking about the gray area, why staying in it is worse than any decision you could make, and why the clarity you're waiting for only comes after you make the call.
Ep. 26: I Shouldn't Have to Ask
You're expecting people to read your mind and then getting mad when they can't. We break down why "they should just know" is the most expensive sentence in your vocabulary and how it's costing you relationships, friendships, and promotions.
Ep. 25: Stop Crashing Out
The most powerful women are the calmest. Here's why crash out culture needs to die and what to do instead of losing it on the people closest to you.
Ep.24: Are you a pick me?
The term "pick me" has been beaten to death. Here's what it actually means, why it always comes out around men, and how to handle the pick me at work.
Ep.23: Organized Hoes Live Longer
Think about the people you know who are constantly overwhelmed. Constantly saying they're stretched too thin. Constantly drowning. A lot of the time, when you look at their actual workload, it's not that they have too much. It's that they're too disorganized to manage what they have.
Ep.22: Is Your Circle Holding You Back?
You've probably had that moment where you look around at the people closest to you and think… something's off. This episode breaks down what outgrowing people actually feels like, how to tell the difference between someone who's draining you and someone who's just on a different path, and why the people you keep closest will either push you forward or hold you in place.
Ep.21: Botox, Boundaries & Building from Scratch
Your energy isn't separate from your output. It is your output. This week we sat down with Brielle to break down how long it actually takes to build a client base, entitled clients, cosmetic procedure stigma, and what ambition does to your dating standards.
Ep.20: Tired of Hand Holding Every Man in Your Life?
If you've ever reminded a grown man to call his own mother, scheduled his appointments, or managed his mood before you could talk about your day, you've been man keeping. We break down what it is, why women fall into it, and how to stop doing everyone else's emotional labour for free.
Ep. 19: Hot Takes on the Manosphere Documentary
We watched the Louis Theroux manosphere documentary and came away with very different reactions. Here's our unfiltered breakdown of what these guys are actually selling and why the algorithm is the real problem.
Ep. 18: You're Scared to be Embarrassed
You would rather not try something than risk being perceived a certain way by people who genuinely do not give a fuck about you. Let’s talk about it…
Ep. 17: Unhinged Men & Female Intuition
We brought one of our closest friends on the pod to talk about her career, her wildest stories, and the one thing every woman needs to stop ignoring: her gut.
Ep. 16: It’s Not You, It’s Your Sh*tty Habits
Most people think they have a motivation problem. They don’t. They have a habit problem. The environment you build around you… your phone, your workspace, your routines… quietly shapes what you do every day. In this episode, we break down why accessibility drives behavior, why extreme habit changes usually fail, and how small daily shifts can move you closer to the version of yourself you actually want to become.
Ep. 15: Too Hot to Spiral
The world feels louder than ever. War headlines, economic chaos, rabbit holes, doom scrolling at 2am… it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But what if spiraling isn’t awareness… it’s avoidance? In this episode, we talk about staying sane when everything feels insane, why personal excellence might be the ultimate rebellion, and how to build something meaningful without collapsing under the noise.
Ep. 14: 90 Day Probation
This episode breaks down what actually happens when you commit to something every week… the ego hits, the identity spiral, the perfectionism trap, the pivots, and the realization that consistency is a competitive advantage. It’s about putting the work out before you feel ready, refining in public, and understanding that most people don’t fail, they just stop.
Ep. 13: F*ck the Timeline
If you feel “behind,” it’s not because you are, it’s because you’re measuring your life against a timeline that was never designed for you. In this episode, we unpack why moving home isn’t failure, why comparison is a confidence killer, and how committing to your values (not society’s milestones) is the fastest way to build momentum. This is your permission slip to stop chasing deadlines and start building a life that actually fits.